Showing posts with label empathy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label empathy. Show all posts

Sunday, July 8, 2012

A Mask.

This isn't a new revelation, but one that has occurred to me more during my GP placement.

I have come to realize that doctors need to put on a mask most of the time as patients come to doctors for various kinds of problems. No matter how annoyed you are about a patient or how fed up you are with your clinic, you cannot let it show. There are tons of patients out there who visit the GP 2-4x a month and I'm sure as the GP you can get frustrated/annoyed with the patient especially when they are coming in for insignificant things.  It is definitely difficult as patients expect the doctor to be professional and empathetic, but it is extremely difficult to show this when the patient themselves aren't coming in with the right intentions. I have sat in clinics where the patient is very rude and overly demanding. And as a doctor, you can't do anything about their rudeness, other than still treat them respectfully and try your best to listen. Definitely need a high tolerance level when dealing with "troublesome" patients. On the contrary, there are certainly very nice patients (usually tend to be the elderly). They are usually very respectful and always apologizing about wasting your time. These are the patients who are worth treating and you can't help but be a bit more empathetic, despite knowing that you're supposed to treat all patients with empathy and care.

However, masks are not just for GPs. As I have mentioned earlier, I have encountered it in my other placements. You would think surgeons wouldn't need to put on a mask as often, as they have a bit less patient contact. Unfortunately, surgeons have just as much face time with patients; however, the reasons of putting on a mask may be different. After a surgery and you have to break some bad news/complications about the surgery, you have to be able to put on a confident face and an appropriate mask. There isn't as much time for you to gather yourself after the operation. GPs or physicians in general would get results/bad news ahead of time so they will be ready and have time to think about how they will break the news. It is definitely a tough job as you don't want to show that much emotion when talking to patients especially after a tough case/surgery.

With clinics, you could enjoy the company of one of the patients and be laughing about something, but you have to be able to quickly return back to neutral before seeing your next patient. It can work the other way around as for one particular case, we were giving our condolences to a patient as her father had just passed away the day before and she was telling us about his death. Definitely an emotional/sad moment where you have to again put on a mask and empathize and comfort the patient. Easily within 2 minutes between patients, you have to regain your composure and be ready for the next patient as he or she can come in with anything. You certainly can't let things affect you and as well for doctors, you have to be good with moving on. You can't dwell on one particular case.

There has been arguments that doctors should not bring their outside emotions to work. Despite having a horrible morning, people argue that you shouldn't bring that grumpiness into the work place. I personally agree with that point as it isn't fair to your patients and your colleagues. I have met a few GPs who said that it is important to bring your emotions to work as you will seem more genuine. I don't mind bringing in a good mood to work, but I certainly wouldn't want to bring in grumpiness to the work place as you can easily affect your patients and colleagues. No one wants to see a grumpy doctor. In my eyes, I think my emotions should not affect my work, so even in that sense, you will have to put on a mask before coming to work especially when you're having a bad day. People argue as a doctor you should be genuine, but for me it is far more advantageous if I put on a mask for work and sort out my issues/problems when I go home/leave work.

What are your thoughts about putting on a mask for work or bringing your emotions to work?

Post your comments below!

Sunday, June 17, 2012

How to Make the Most of Shadowing.

Right so I'm in the mood for a tips post so today I will be discussing how to make the most of a shadowing opportunity. This is mainly aimed to those who aren't in medical school yet.

Let's point out the obvious issues of shadowing doctors when you aren't in medical school yet:
  • You can't do any clinical skills
  • Don't have much knowledge in medicine 
  • Daunting environment - very unfamiliar/disorientating 
  • Never really spoken to a patient before
Common problems that you share with medical students:
  • You get ignored
  • Can't do very much (depends on the placement/consultant)
So with the common problem of getting ignored...there isn't much you can do about it other than finding someone who won't mind having students around/is a good teacher. Not being able to do much is a universal problem. Fair enough some patients don't want to be handled by a student and there has been several times where I have found myself sitting in a corner like an old piece of furniture. It's just something we all have to accept.

Right so as a prospective medical student you want to get some experience and see what it is really like to be a doctor so you ask to shadow a doctor/consultant. So how do you make the most of it? Because you won't have much knowledge about the specialty, the best thing you can do is observe the key skills that a doctor needs. The main skills you'll notice are:
  • Communication skills
  • Empathy
  • Teamwork
Communication is probably the most important skill to have as a doctor. The profession involves a lot of talking to patients, but also the need to listen to the patients as well. Watch how the doctor talks to a patient. Listen to how he/she asks a question. Usually doctors start a consultation with open ended questions to allow a patient to elaborate why they are in clinic. Watch the rapport that the doctor establishes with the patient. The best way to get info from a patient is to get them to trust you so the first few seconds of a consultation is key. Don't dig your head too deep into the medicine. Just focus on the interaction between the doctor and the patient. Some of the consultants who I have been attached to describe it as an art form. Communication is literally needed everywhere. Communication is key in theatre, clinics, and on the wards. If you're fortunate enough to go onto the wards, take some time and talk to the patients. I took my first patient history 1 month into medical school and hardly knew any medicine at that time. Take a social history which involves asking the patient about how his/her medical condition has affected them. Try to find a patient with a chronic disease such as heart conditions. Find out how their condition has changed their lifestyle. This is a good way to practice your communication skills and creating good rapport with the patient. Plus most patients on the wards are really bored so most will welcome a nice lil chat.

Empathy...I've made a post about this not too long ago. Again another important skill and something you'll sometimes see. Talking and listening to a patient is one thing, but watch to see if the consultant shows a bit of empathy. Sometimes patients have a tough time with their medical condition and SOME consultants do take the time to empathize.

Being a doctor involves a lot of teamwork. It is certainly not a one-man job. In clinic, you'll probably have a nurse helping out. Just watch how the doctor and the nurse interact and how they have to be on the same page. Essentially the nurse keeps the clinic running smoothly and on time. You'll probably see more teamwork in the operating theatre. There is always about 6-8 people in an operating theatre so again stressing the importance of communication skills and teamwork skills. Sometimes the consultant may invite you to a MDT meeting (multidisciplinary team meeting). There will be microbiologists, radiologists, surgeons, physicians, nurses, etc all sitting in one meeting to discuss complex cases. Not only do you have to get along with people in your own specialty, but you'll have to get along with people in other specialties. So essentially the care of a patient isn't just in one person's hands...but in many many other people's hands. If you can, take the time to appreciate this as when I first started out in medicine I didn't expect THAT many people to be involved in a patient's care. It was actually surprising and quite amazing how people manage to stay organized and not mix things up (but it does happen from time to time).

Oh and if you really don't know what's going on...best thing to do is just smile and look interested. No one wants a grumpy/tired/not interested student around them. If a doctor sees that you're interested then he/she will be more willing to teach. I've tested this so this is based on first hand experience. Recently in my last orthopaedic attachment...I was falling asleep in clinic (due to jet lag) and my consultant hardly said anything to me or really taught me anything. He just left me alone. Next clinic...got over my jet lag...more keen...leaning forward and looking interested - learned loads. My consultant taught me so much and he seemed to enjoy my company as I was interacting with the patients and with him as well.

Another tip is that if you find yourself on the wards and no one to follow - go find the junior doctors. They know what it is like to be a student as it is still fresh in their minds and they'll probably be able to sympathize and show you some interesting things suited for your level. I've encountered prospective medical students in the hospital before and don't be shy and just ask for help. For me, I'll always be happy to help unless I'm busy. Same goes with junior doctors/doctors of any level. As long as they aren't doing something really important/look really busy, just introduce yourself and ask em if they can show you around/teach. Just make sure they know you're not a medical student and just want to get a taste of what it is like to be a doctor. Some might even get a break and sit down with you and tell you what their day is usually like.

Good luck and I hope this post helped!

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Empathy.

Empathy is probably one of the most popular answers to medical interview questions such as "skills required to be a doctor." Empathy is essentially the skill to be able to feel another person's feelings. To be entirely honest...it seems like it is a skill that you LOSE, not gain as your career progresses. As a medical student, I treat the patients with a lot of respect and take the time to listen to them and try to empathize and sympathize with them. It is definitely not an easy task. There are countless amount of times where I found myself fake sympathizing/empathizing with patients as I sometimes find it very difficult to place myself in his or her shoes. And some of you may think why you "lose" your empathy skill as you progress through your career. Obviously this is a generalization and there are definitely lots of consultants out there who are really good at empathizing with patients; however, there are some where you start questioning their bedside manners.

I really don't blame the consultants for not empathizing with patients. After doing your job for 30-something years, you might not be as interested in it as you were 30 years ago. Some consultants have extremely busy schedules and it is a shame they don't take the time to empathize with patients. With an aging population, we now see a lot of elderly patients on the wards with chronic conditions. These patients might be in for their 10th surgery on their hip, for example. Sometimes it is unfortunate that surgeons/doctors don't acknowledge these things. Yeah you need to fix a patient's hip, but after having so many surgeries, it is obviously going to affect the patient psychologically and socially. I know there are some doctors who believe in holistic medicine. These doctors would tend to all the needs of the patient: psychological, physical, and social. I feel like the patients who have these sort of doctors feel like they are cared for and sometimes I guess it is pretty frustrating to be tossed between 5 different teams in a hospital as consultants won't know you as well.

Then we start to asking the question: are doctors too specialized? I mean just under orthopaedics, we've got consultants who specialize in only hip replacements, or hand surgery, etc. With such specialized doctors, we start to realize that these doctors start to lose knowledge about other systems in the body. In hospital for hip replacement but have a breathing problem so the orthopod has to refer you to the respiratory team. Are we becoming too one dimensional? It's definitely a tough argument. By having such specialized doctors/surgeons, we get people who are excellent at their field. If we have a bunch of doctors who knows a bit of everything...well we get doctors who are just good at everything and not excellent in anything. It's a tough argument, but to be honest, I would much prefer having a very specialized doctor as I would know for sure that he or she is fantastic at treating a certain condition or performing certain surgical procedures. If my life is at risks...I would obviously want the best and only the best.

Hmm...think I got a bit off topic there. Anyways empathy. It is a shame that some doctors lose this skill and overlook a patient's social/psychological well-being. But like I said earlier...I really don't blame them. I hope I will still be good at empathizing with patients 30 years down the line, but I know it will be something I will have to keep reminding myself to do. What's the point of being rude to patients? You gain nothing. Might as well be nice and listen to them and make their stay at the hospital better. Easy to say...hard to do.